Christian guys!! You are precious! Not just because of who you are, or your belief, but because simply, and in a un-sexual matter: WE NEED YOU!!! Its probably a common fact that one way for a guy to get a brownie-point in a girls heart is by playing with kids, and many times - indeed , we like what we see!! Also when a man can cook, clean floors, play the guitar... ... But I don`t want to sum up, or focus on "things guys can do to get a girlfriend". I want to go a bit beyond that!
I think us as girls actually need you, more than we sometimes are aware of, think of, or perhaps even know! We need you to be around, to be with us and to love us in a god-like way. We need you to be role-models, show us the male qualities of God in a pure and good and honest way! We need you to encourage us, protect us, and why not once in a while even pull out a chair for us!! ;) being a gentle-man can never hurt! Plus, it should be a good practice for married life!! ;P
As men, the "head of the family", you are the ones who ought to give protection, safety, and be our "hand to hold". I don`t mean this "in-love-ish-ly" because I believe there is something more to this, to grasp, that is "essential". Why not stop focusing on "whom in this room can I perhaps, maybe, somehow, somewhere, get together with?", and instead focus on how one can love this person in a godly way, without other motivations. Simply love us, and let us feel loved, become used to feeling loved and accepted by guys, without any of the sides having to question what lies behind it... Why not?
1 comment:
hehe morsomt og rett på inlegg malin;)
eg er veldig enig med deg i det med gutane,men me som jenter må lære oss å vere takksamme for dei gutane me har veit eg;) me er kanskje den sarte,følsomme og mest kompliserte delen av Guds mennesklege skaparverk,og det krever vel ein litt meir robust og ufølsom beskytter/kriger/mandig/sterk(osb)-del to av skaparverket som skal vere eit bilete på Gud sjølv...
hmm...saman er biletet fullenda..styrken (som med slfølge kvinner med har,men kaskje er mest utprega hos våre menn) og følsomheten (som ikkje utelukker menn,men overvekta ligg hos kvinner)...GO likestilling,med fokus på Guds syn på verda:)
ja eg ville kanskje advart deg om at eg har ganske monge meiningar om akkurat dette tema før eg sa at eg kunne kommentere(har blitt kalla skap raudstrømpe og klager ikkje;)
men enjoy,eg veit kor glad ein kommentar på bloggen kan gjere forfataren:) og du er søt når du søv;)
maria:*
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